Live like a traveller in the Dunya

So I’m moving houses once again, this will be my third move in under a year subhanAllah. As I’m packing once again I have been thinking about how we get so attached to the place we live. We become accustomed to having things a certain way and we don’t like change. One of the most stressful life events is moving homes! Me and my husband are not just moving homes but we’re also moving far away from our family and friends. So I’m feeling really emotional. I’m excited and sad, I’m happy and stressed, I’m looking forward to it but also thinking I don’t want to move so far. I’m feeling everything at once.

But as I sat here thinking about how annoying it is to have to move again and again especially as I had just started to get used to where we live it reminded me of a hadith.

The prophet (saw) said: Be in this world as if you were a stranger or a traveller. (Bukhari)

Moving home a lot actually helps us to realise that this isn’t our permanent home. That no matter how much we love to live in a specific place we will eventually have to leave it. So we should always keep that in mind and not allow ourselves to love our homes so much that we can’t bear to leave it if we need to. But that is really hard. We want to find a house where we can live long term, where we can build our home with our family, raise our children. We want to decorate our homes and make it look nice and beautiful. We spend lots of money in making a house our home. So then we don’t want to leave.

But it’s halal for us to have a nice home so shouldn’t we want to make it look nice? How can we balance between loving where we live and not being so attached to it that we can’t bear to leave? We want to have the things from the dunya but how can we stop ourselves from becoming materialistic?

Ali ibn Abi Talib said: Asceticism (Zuhd) is not that you should not own anything, but that nothing should own you.

So we learn from this that it’s okay to have a nice home but in wanting a nice home we shouldn’t allow it to control what we do, especially if it causes us to commit haram, like taking a riba based loan. Everyone wants a place that they can call their own and make how they want but it’s not worth using haram means as it will only cause us misery in the hereafter.

Being grateful for what we have is also important especially if what you want may be out of your reach. I had never imagined living in a studio apartment when I got married and going from a 3 bedroom home to that was really difficult initially but alhamdulillah I got used to it and enjoy living here now which is why I feel sad about leaving.

If we have to leave our home we should keep in mind our permanent home in Jannah is waiting for us and that always brings me comfort because I know that even if my home in the dunya may not be how I would like, my home in Jannah will be better than anything I could ever imagine!

Al-Hasan Al-Basri said: The dunya distracts and preoccupies the heart and body, but al-zuhd (asceticism, not giving importance to worldly things) gives rest to the heart and body. Verily, Allah will ask us about the halal things we enjoyed, so what about the haram!

My Eco Iftar

I had an amazing Iftar experience recently, I attended an Eco Iftar, hosted by islamic relief. At this Iftar we learnt so much about how to be more ethical in an innovative and fun way. There was storytelling by a muslim theatre company. Fair trade, organic and ethically sourced honey, dates, chocolate, olive oil and much more was available to buy. There I discovered that in Oxford we have a halal, ethical and organic farm! I even had fun making my own smoothie by riding a (stationary) bike. We had a 3 course organic meal, including kebabs, rice, chicken curry and even an organic cake!

My favourite part of the Iftar was the the storytelling, the sisters who told us the stories were so good, they kept the audience captivated and I honestly hoped they would tell us more stories!

The story I will share with you was about how we are treating the animals in the world. This story was originally written 1000 years ago. She told us how some people got shipwrecked on an uninhabited island and discovered all the wildlife and lush green trees and plants. But eventually they got greedy and started working the animals so hard that they were dying, they began hunting and killing all the animals. So the animals went to the king of jinns to seek justice. So the king gathered the people and the animals and they both gave their side. After justice was given to the animals the king explained that we need to live in balance with the animals. He then gave signs in which we can see whether we are in fact living in balance with the animals. Just keeping in mind this story was written 1000 years ago it was just amazing to hear the signs. The first sign was that the animals will disappear one by one, the second was the water that we drink from streams and rain will become undrinkable, the third sign was the air in your settlements will become dangerous to breathe and the fourth sign was the sky will weaken so that the earth will become exposed to the sun. These were the warnings given so that when we see them we will know that we are not striking the balance. I loved how the sister told the story, she kept is captivated and explained such an important issue in an easy to understand way. We need to learn  to care for the animals and treat them properly.

The prophet (saw) said: There is none amongst the Muslims who plants a tree or sows seeds and then a bird, or a person or an animal eats from it but it is regarded as a charitable gift for him. (Bukhari)

Then the brother who started his own ethical, organic farm explained a it about how they run the farm. It’s a family business and they are so conscious about being ethical that even their home is built from the local natural resources, the walls are built from clay from the farm and even the roof is built. From straw which is locally sourced. All the energy is sustainable, they use solar, wind etc. Alhamdulillah not only do they treat the animals justly they also live in an ethical way.

He then left us with some important questions to reflect on;

1. Where is your food coming from?

2. Where do you get your energy from?

3. Where is your building materials/clothes from?

Allah says: Eat and drink from the provision of God and do not commit abuse on the earth, spreading corruption. Quran (2:60)

We had sister Lotifa Begum explain how the way we live here, in the UK has a global impact. How the choices we make here affects climate change but it affects people half way across the world. An example she gave was how people who are already living in poverty in Bangladesh have had their homes flooded several times due to the climate change. Most of the climate change is a result of men. She advised us to do our part and make a conscious effort to be more ethical in our choices, to recycle more for example. As these drastic climate changes are causing disasters and from that even more poverty around the world.

We all need to keep in mind that the climate change and the polluting of the earth is also a disaster but it isn’t one that we’re used to seeing like an earthquake so we think it isn’t. Believe me it is most certainly a disaster.

Allah says: Do not pollute the earth after it has been so wholesomely set in order. Quran (7:56)

The prophet (saw) taught us about looking after the earth and being just with the animals. You can see this from the way he lived his life and taught his companions to live. Allah has explained to us in the Quran the the same concept. There are hundreds of ayahs in the Quran talking about the environment and how we should be on the earth. There are many Hadiths also explaining this.

The prophet (saw) said: The world is green and beautiful and Allah has left you in charge of it, so be careful of how you conduct yourselves (Muslim)